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#350 Between The Lines- Sara Bareilles

Too late- two choices to stay or to leave/
Mine was so easy to uncover/
He’d already left with the other.

Sometimes obscure lyrics can hide a beautiful story and serve a purpose. Sara Bareilles’ “Between the Lines” is a perfect example of this. This is essentially a story about a couple breaking up. But the details are what make the song interesting. It appears that the man in the story is married, as one of the only things that is keeping them truly apart is a piece of paper. Something like a marriage certificate!?

Between The Lines Meaning
Sara Bareilles

The woman is hoping he will leave his wife for her, and perhaps he has said he will in the past. In fact, she has read between the lines a thousand times that he will. Of course, he will.

But something has changed. Perhaps she grew tired. She started listening to him closer. It turns out he talks about his wife all the time—she was just willfully ignoring it. She will no longer defend his intentions after his repeated failures to “do the right thing by her” and leave his wife. Perhaps there was an ultimatum, but his answer is clear…he is staying with is wife. She’s done.

Between the Lines meaning
Sara

Sara’s voice is always amazing. You can hear her great range here—both in terms of her range up and down the octaves and her emotional range. It takes an emotional courage to present a story like this. (Though of course, just because she sings about it doesn’t mean it is her in the story).

But that obfuscation of the lyrics serves a purpose in a song like this. For the artist, it allows him/her to talk about emotionally charged and private material while at the same time not revealing details about themselves that might make them seem less marketable.

Between The Lines Lyrics

Time to tell me the truth.
To burden your mouth for what you say,
No pieces of paper in the way.
Cause I can’t continue pretending to choose
The opposite sides on which we fall,
The “loving you laters” if at all,
No right minds could wrong be this many times.

My memory is cruel.
I’m queen of attention to details,
Defending intentions if he fails.
Until now, he told me her name.
It sounded familiar in a way,
I could have sworn I’d heard him say it ten thousand times;
If only I had been listening.

Leave unsaid unspoken,
Eyes wide shut unopened.
You and me,
Always between the lines.
Between the lines.

I thought I thought I was ready to bleed.
That we’d move from the shadows on the wall,
And stand in the center of it all.
Too late two choices to stay or to leave.
Mine was so easy to uncover,
He’d already left with the other.
So I’ve learned to listen through silence.

Leave unsaid unspoken,
Eyes wide shut unopened.
You and me always be…

I tell myself all the words he surely meant to say.
I’ll talk until the conversation doesn’t stay on,
Wait for me I’m almost ready,
When he meant let go.

Leave unsaid unspoken,
Eyes wide shut unopened.
You and me
Always be,
You and me
Always between the lines.

Songwriters: Sara Bareilles

#200 I’ll Stand By You- The Pretenders

Nothing you confess could make me love you less/
I’ll stand by you…

The Pretenders’ “I’ll Stand By You” is an emotional song. I love the thought of a bad-ass woman saying nothing you can say or do will make me love you less. What a song! When the song came out it had this weird quality: it seemed like it was a cover of a song I had heard before. It seemed like it belonged in another era- not 1994.

I'll Stand By You Meaning
The Pretenders

It was instant classic. In fact, I assumed it was a cover for many years. I can’t remember having this feeling many times in my life. Perhaps you’ve felt the same before? Like, how could this not have been written before? “Timelessness”.

Ill Stand By You Meaning
Chrissie Hynde

The highlight of the song is the lyrics and Chrissie Hynde’s unique delivery of the vocal. If you can feel love in someone’s voice, this is something close to what it sounds like. She sounds so sure of herself, yet her voice wobbles a bit: perhaps at the intensity of the words she is expressing. That’s what I like to think.

This song takes quite a journey—musically—from the beginning to the end of the song. In the beginning it is a tender love song. At the end it has become a full-out rock jam (listen to the drums). The background singing and lead guitar are especially worth noting.

I’ll Stand By You Lyrics

Oh, why you look so sad, the tears are in your eyes,
Come on and come to me now, and don’t be ashamed to cry,
Let me see you through, ’cause I’ve seen the dark side too.
When the night falls on you, you don’t know what to do,
Nothing you confess could make me love you less,

I’ll stand by you,
I’ll stand by you, won’t let nobody hurt you,
I’ll stand by you

So if you’re mad, get mad, don’t hold it all inside,
Come on and talk to me now.
Hey there, what you got to hide?
I get angry too, well, I’m alive like you.
When you’re standing at the cross roads,
And don’t know which path to choose,
Let me come along, ’cause even if you’re wrong

I’ll stand by you,
I’ll stand by you, won’t let nobody hurt you,
I’ll stand by you.
Baby, even to your darkest hour, and I’ll never desert you,
I’ll stand by you.
And when, when the night falls on you baby,
You’re feeling all a lone, you’re wandering on your own,
I’ll stand by you.

I’ll stand by you, won’t let nobody hurt you,
I’ll stand by you, baby even to your darkest hour,
And I’ll never desert you,
I’ll stand by you,

I’ll stand by you.
I’ll stand by you, won’t let nobody hurt you,
I’ll stand by you, baby even to your darkest hour,
And I’ll never desert you
I’ll stand by you

Songwriters: Thomas Kelly / Christine Hynde / Billy Steinberg

#100 Heart Of The Matter- Don Henley

But everything changes/
And my friends seem to scatter/
But I think it’s about forgiveness.

If you watch The Eagles documentary it is clear that Henley has lived a full life. Fuller than most of us. In Don Henley’s “The Heart of the Matter” he seems to be coming to terms with some of the choices he made and believes that forgiveness is a virtue onto itself.

Interestingly, in the song he is giving this advice to someone else, but it doesn’t make it any less poignant. Perhaps carrying around anger will eat you up inside.  Three years after this song was released, he got back together with The Eagles.

The Heart Of The Matter

As I was working on this project, I was surprised by how Henley’s solo work held up. This will be his third song on this list which in my book makes him HOF worthy. He had two other borderline songs as well. I think The Eagles and Henley get a bad rap—much of it rightly deserved due to their arrogance, but there is no doubting their talent.

In “Heart of the Matter” we hear Henley sound more sincere than he does in other songs. The material sounds more personal than anything he did in The Eagles or solo and it comes across in his voice.

Heart Of The Matter
Henley

The Heart Of The Matter Lyrics & Meaning

I got the call today, I didn’t want to hear,
But I knew that it would come.
An old, true friend of ours was talkin’ on the phone,
She said you found someone.

And I thought of all the bad luck,
And the struggles we went through.
And how I lost me, and you lost you.
What are those voices outside love’s open door?
Make us throw off our contentment,
And beg for something more?

I’m learning to live without you now.
But I miss you sometimes.
The more I know, the less I understand.
All the things I thought I knew, I’m learning again.

I’ve been tryin’ to get down
To the heart of the matter,
But my will gets weak,
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it’s about forgiveness,
Forgiveness.
Even if, even if you don’t love me anymore.

These times are so uncertain,
There’s a yearning undefined,
People filled with rage.
We all need a little tenderness,
How can love survive in such a graceless age?

Ah, the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness,
They’re the very things we kill, I guess.
Oh, pride and competition,
Cannot fill these empty arms.
And the work I put between us, you know it doesn’t keep me warm.

I’m learning to live with out you now,
But I miss you, baby.
And the more I know, the less I understand.
All the things I thought I’d figured out,
I have to learn again.

I’ve been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter,
But everything changes,
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think it’s about forgiveness,
Forgiveness.
Even if, even if you don’t love me anymore.

There are people in your life,
Who’ve come and gone.
They let you down,
You know they’ve hurt your pride.
You better put it all behind you baby,
‘Cause life goes on.
You keep carryin’ that anger,
It’ll eat you up inside baby.

I’ve been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter.
But my will gets weak,
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it’s about forgiveness,
Forgiveness.
Even if, even if you don’t love me.

I’ve been tryin’ to get down
To the heart of the matter.
Because the flesh will get weak,
And the ashes will scatter
So, I’m thinkin’ about forgiveness,
Forgiveness.
Even if , even if you don’t love me.

Forgiveness, forgiveness, baby,
Forgiveness, forgiveness.
Forgiveness, forgiveness.
Even if, even if you don’t love me anymore.

Written by Don Henley