Reason to Believe- Karen Dalton / Tim Hardin

Knowing that you lied/
Straight-faced while I cried/
Still I look to find a reason to believe

“A Reason is to Believe” is incredibly misunderstood. Many think it is a love song—it isn’t. There are two primary reasons for this: one, the most common cover of this song is Rod Stewart’s live version which is an awful misinterpretation of the song. Second, the lyrics are a bit confusing.

The song is about a couple who are in a bad relationship—there is gaslighting and lying.  Yet, the narrator still “loves” her partner; partially out of habit, also due to the good times they had, but mostly because of the doubt that has been sowed in her mind. Rather than repel her, this behavior causes her to think that she can’t live without her partner. For whatever reason, she still believes that their relationship will work. Maybe because he is a sweet talker.

Reason to believe meaning
Karen Dalton

The narrator knows what is really happening, but breaking up is hard, especially with a manipulative individual. The song starts out: “If I listened long enough to you/ I’d find away to believe that it’s all true/” This sounds like the narrator is coming to the realization that she is not dating a good person. But will she be able to leave?

Reason to Believe meaning
Tim Hardin

Karen Dalton’s version of this song is the best version. It is stripped down of all pretenses; is just her raspy voice and a banjo. She sings the song as it is meant to be—as if she is upset by her realization. Contrast that with Stewart’s version. He highlights the following lyric: “Someone like you/ makes it hard to live without/ somebody else”. That makes it sound as if he is realizing he found his long-lost love. That is not what this song is about. His delivery and tears at the end of the MTV Unplugged version is just weird.

The original version by Tim Hardin is amazing as well. Both Hardin and Dalton deliver classic folk performances. Their performance shows that a great musician just needs her instrument and voice to deliver a song that connects emotionally. I give Dalton’s version the slight edge, as it sounds more unique and heartbreaking.

As with many folk songs, the one weakness is the song-length. The song is short. I would have preferred another verse and chorus. That would hit the sweet spot.

Reason to Believe Lyrics

If I listened long enough to you
I’d find a way to believe that it’s all true
Knowing that you lied
Straight-faced while I cried
Still I look to find a reason to believe

Someone like you
Makes it hard to live without
Somebody else
Someone like you
Makes it easy to give
Never think about myself

If I gave you time to change my mind
I’d find a way just to leave the past behind
Knowing that you lied
Straight-faced while I cried
Still I look to find a reason to believe

If I listened long enough to you
I’d find a way to believe that it’s all true
Knowing that you lied
Straight-faced while I cried
Still I look to find a reason to believe

Someone like you
Makes it hard to live without
Somebody else
Someone like you
Makes it easy to give
Never think about myself

Someone like you
Makes it hard to live without
Somebody else
Someone like you
Makes it easy to give
Never think about myself

Someone like you
Makes it hard to live without
Somebody else
Someone like you
Makes it easy to give
Never think about myself
Someone like you
Makes it hard to live without
Somebody else

written by Tim Hardin

Driver’s License- Olivia Rodrigo

I still see your face in the white cars, front yards/
Can’t drive past the places we used to go to

Olivia Rodrigo’s “Driver’s License” hits on a lot of teenage tropes yet manages to deliver a genuine performance and a memorable song. She talks about several teenage rites of passage, but this song is primarily about getting over your first love. This is an early pick for a “greatest song of all time”–the boldest on this list. Will it stand the test of time? We’ll see.

The bridge contains a lot of the depth: she visits the places where she and her ex used to go together, and the memories haunt the space. She thinks she sees and hears him when he’s clearly not there; she’s still in love.

drivers license meaning lyrics
great album cover

Notice that the song contains nothing negative or derogatory about her ex—even though he broke her heart. (Perhaps that is a different stage of grief that we’ll get to hear about in a different song).

There are a couple notable things about this song-that make it different than others on this list. For one, it is the first song she released and wrote (I believe). She doesn’t even have an album yet. And she was so young when she wrote it. For a similar story of artists having early success check out Kate Bush’s Wuthering Heights, Simon and Garfunkel’s Sound of Silence and anything by Ritchie Valens.

olivia rodrigo
olivia rodrigo

While the universal theme of teenage angst goes far, the song is memorable because of the beautiful melody and Rodrigo’s passionate delivery. Our ability to believe the words and emotions that an artist expresses is one of the most important aspects of making a great song.

I am bullish on Rodrigo; I look forward to hearing her future work. I think she has the potential to grow into her voice and that will go a long way. I also see her moving away from playing the piano live. She’s an adequate piano player but has great stage performance. Stevie Nicks writes on the piano but doesn’t play live. I think that’s the way to go.

Driver’s License Lyrics

I got my driver’s license last week,
Just like we always talked about.
‘Cause you were so excited for me,
To finally drive up to your house.
But today I drove through the suburbs,
Crying ’cause you weren’t around.

And you’re probably with that blonde girl,
Who always made me doubt.
She’s so much older than me,
She’s everything I’m insecure about.
Yeah, today I drove through the suburbs,
‘Cause how could I ever love someone else?

And I know we weren’t perfect but I’ve never felt this way for no one.
And I just can’t imagine how you could be so okay now that I’m gone.
Guess you didn’t mean what you wrote in that song about me.
‘Cause you said forever, now I drive alone past your street.

And all my friends are tired
Of hearing how much I miss you, but
I kinda feel sorry for them,
‘Cause they’ll never know you the way that I do. yeah
Today I drove through the suburbs,
And pictured I was driving home to you.

And I know we weren’t perfect,
But I’ve never felt this way for no one. oh
And I just can’t imagine how you could be so okay, now that I’m gone.
I guess you didn’t mean what you wrote in that song about me.
‘Cause you said forever, now I drive alone past your street.

Red lights, stop signs,
I still see your face in the white cars, front yards,
Can’t drive past the places we used to go to.
‘Cause I still fuckin’ love you, babe (ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh).
Sidewalks we crossed,
I still hear your voice in the traffic, we’re laughing
Over all the noise.
God, I’m so blue, know we’re through,
But I still fuckin’ love you, babe (ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh).

I know we weren’t perfect but I’ve never felt this way for no one.
And I just can’t imagine how you could be so okay, now that I’m gone.
‘Cause you didn’t mean what you wrote in that song about me.
‘Cause you said forever, now I drive alone past your street.
Yeah, you said forever, now I drive alone past your street.

Songwriters: Daniel Nigro / Olivia Rodrigo

The Outdoor Type- The Lemonheads/ Smudge

I lied about being the outdoor type/
I’ve never owned a sleeping bag let alone a mountain bike.

The Lemonheads never made it bigtime, though they did have a relatively big hit with a cover of Simon and Garfunkel’s Mrs Robinson. Their best song is “The Outdoor Type”—a gem that describes the slight exaggerations that one tells in the beginning of a relationship. This song was also a cover. It was written/recorded by an even smaller band Smudge–an earlier band of songwriter Tom Morgan.

Have you ever noticed that on every dating profile everyone loves to travel? I would say it is over 90% of profiles. I hate travel. Leading with this is not ideal, nor is the fact that I am not into animals. I want a person to have a solid hour invested in me before they learn that I am a no-animal-owning, travel-hating single. Tom Morgan of feels the same way I do, except for him he met a girl who likes “the outdoors” and so he went along with it and said he likes the outdoors too.

It seems like a relatively harmless white lie until he comically lists all the outdoor activities he has aversions to.

We assume that he does not carry on this charade for long, and it doesn’t lead to any tragic misunderstandings—that’s what makes the song fun–rather than a description of something toxic and manipulative. The girl can find out his true nature by asking him if he’d like to join her on a walk. When he says “no” his big plan of a romance is spoiled.

The Outdoor Type meaning
The Lemonheads

He is also lying about something that is easily verifiable. He is not lying about faith, children, finances or fidelity. Something crazy could even happen and he could join her on a walk and enjoy it and become the outdoor type.

The song brings up the question about when should we share things when we first meet a potential romantic partner. How fast is too fast? How long is too long to wait? Can you say you are “interested” in the outdoors to someone who is outdoors girl when you are clearly an indoor guy? What about if you like looking at pictures of mountains–that’s outdoorsy, right? Should you exclude all people who don’t like the same activities as you right off the bat?

With this short electric-folk inspired song, The Lemonheads are able to raise a bunch of important issues in a fun, tongue-in-cheek way, while also delivering a song with a catchy chorus.

The Outdoor Type Lyrics

Always had a roof above me
Always paid the rent
But I’ve never set foot inside a tent
Can’t build a fire to save my life
I lied about being the outdoor type

I’ve never slept out underneath the stars,
The closest that I came to that was one time my car
Broke down for an hour in the suburbs at night
I lied about being the outdoor type.

Too scared to let you know you knew what you were looking for
I lied until I fit the bill god bless the great indoors
I lied about being the outdoor type
I’ve never owned a sleeping bag let alone a mountain bike

I can’t go away with you on a rock climbing weekend
What if somethings on tv and its never shown again
Its just as well I’m not invited I’m afraid of heights
I lied about being the outdoor type
Never learned to swim can’t grow a beard or even fight
I lied about being the outdoor type

Songwriters: Tom Morgan